Friday, 18 October 2013

Tip-Giving vs Self-Defense

This week I have been struggling a lot with balancing the different perspectives on with sexual assault with which I have been presented since the beginning of the semester. The two main sources of these perspectives are of course this class and my time spent volunteering with the Sexual Assault Centre on campus (which is what I am doing for my CSL placement). I am not trying to suggest that these approaches to the issue of sexual assault are vastly different from each other; throughout the course of this week however, some nuanced differences have come to light for me which I find particularly troubling.

What was troubling for me in class this week was our conversations around self-defense as a means of breaking the rape script that Sharon Marcus posits in her essay “Fighting Bodies, Fighting Words.” In her discussion of Bart and O’Brien study she says that “their surveys of women who prevented rape attempts consistently show that resistance does work, and that often minimal signs of it . . . can suffice to block a man from continuing a rape attempt” (396). My immediate reaction when I read this phrase was, “Wow, this sounds a lot like ‘tip-giving.’” I feel like this encouraging of women’s use of self-defense as a means of combatting sexual assault does in some way responsibilize them in a somewhat neo-liberal fashion.

As a part of my volunteer work at the SAC I am a member of the Education Committee and part of the presentation we give (and the part I was working on this week) is about the negative effects of tip-giving as a means of preventing sexual assault. In the presentation we discuss how this culture of tip-giving contributes to victim-blaming attitudes around sexual assault. Along with that it also has the potential to elicit self-blame in the survivors of sexual assault. When we look at the promotion of self-defense as a kind of tip-giving we might consider this idea of self-blame. For example, I saw those posters advertising the feminist self-defense class that Dr. Gotell mentioned, and I was interested in them, but never got around to signing up. If I had been sexually assaulted and then told that I would not have been had I taken that class I might blame myself for neglecting to take preventative measures and sign up for that class.


All this being said though, I definitely do still see the value of feminist self-defense in combatting the rape script as opposed to other kinds of tips we hear. These other kinds of tips – don’t walk alone at night, don’t wear your hair in a ponytail, don’t wear provocative clothing – all contribute to a patriarchal controlling of women’s bodies and restricting the space they take up in the world. Self-defense on the other hand, like we talked about in class, empowers women to embody their own bodies and use them in ways outside of the normative construction of femininity. So in that way self-defense is certainly a much better way to confront the issue of sexual assault – especially, like Marcus suggests, as a preventative step instead of a post-assault reaction like law reform (388); however, I do think we still need to be critical of the ways it individually responsibilize women and has the potential to contribute to a culture of victim-blaming.

Work Cited
Marcus, Sharon. “Fighting Bodies, Fighting Words: A Theory and Politics of Rape Prevention,” in Judith Butler and Joan Scott, eds., Feminists Theorize the Political, (New York: Routledge, 1992), pp. 385-403 (Oct. 17). 

1 comment:

  1. Shannah,

    I’m currently reading Aftermath, a book by Susan Brison, in which she discusses her experiences of recovering from sexual assault and attempted murder. For her, self-defense serves neither as a way to defend herself from future attackers, nor as a way of through which she might have prevented her own attack. Instead, feminist self-defense becomes a way for Brison to care for herself. She describes feeling an inseparability between her psychic and her physical trauma--and self-defense became a way for her to cater to this inseparability. This stood out to me: self-defense as self-care (and, as an aside, a response to mind-body dualism).

    While there are the apparent contradictions, that you point to, I think that self-defense might be rethought simply as a way through which we might be able to learn to inhabit our bodies differently; as a way to learn how to take up more space (read: interrupt the rape script) in the way that Marcus advises us to. Similarly to your insights, perhaps one way that feminist self-defense could operate is as explicitly not assault prevention-based, and instead it could operate as embodiment consciousness-raising.

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